Sacrificing nothing

work-152822_1280Sometimes I sit in a meeting a wonder what we all would have been doing for a job 50 years ago. The important industries in North Carolina back then were tobacco, farming, textiles, banking, and insurance. It can be equal parts unnerving and inspiring to think I might have been doing something in one of those industries. The fact is, the education that do many of us enjoy was built on the money made from those things.

There’s a famous quote (of unknown attribution) which says, “Opportunity Is Missed Because It Is Dressed in Overalls and Looks Like Work.” Someone from the past who worked on a tobacco farm would have laughed to hear me describe anything I do to be hard work. After all, I help intelligent people understand how to use software from the comfort of my office. This makes it all the more incumbent on me to recognize the opportunity I have.

There is more to life than work. There is more to success than work. But work also isn’t a punishment. There are people who would love to be where we are right now. One of my favorite quotes is from Steve Prefontaine: “To give less than your best is to sacrifice the gift.” As Labor Day approaches, let’s remind each other to sacrifice nothing.

Here’s a favorite poem of mine related to this subject:

To be of use
BY MARGE PIERCY

The people I love the best
jump into work head first
without dallying in the shallows
and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.
They seem to become natives of that element,
the black sleek heads of seals
bouncing like half-submerged balls.

I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,
who pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,
who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,
who do what has to be done, again and again.

I want to be with people who submerge
in the task, who go into the fields to harvest
and work in a row and pass the bags along,
who are not parlor generals and field deserters
but move in a common rhythm
when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

The work of the world is common as mud.
Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.
But the thing worth doing well done
has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.
Greek amphoras for wine or oil,
Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums
but you know they were made to be used.
The pitcher cries for water to carry
and a person for work that is real.

The modern résumé

I get asked sometimes about résumés, and last year I helped some of the interns with theirs. I think it’s usually good to look at what experts say, but in the area of résumés, I listen to my gut. My gut tells me the following:

  1. One page. That’s it. It can be two columns, but just one page.
  2. Use appropriate colors and fonts and typography. This isn’t 1975 and we’re not limited by the IBM Selectric typewriter.
  3. Make it interesting. It shouldn’t be strange, but there’s no need for it to be boring.
  4. For heaven’s sake, no typos or misspellings! Have multiple friends and family members read it.
  5. It’s important for you to convey what you’ve done, but it’s just as important to convey who you are. You have a good story to tell about your life; make sure it comes across.

This is purportedly Marissa Mayer’s résumé. She was until recently the CEO at Yahoo! and before that was an executive at Google. Her résumé tells the story of someone who is confident, knows who she is, and is likable. This isn’t a bad one to emulate! I think I like hers better than my own so maybe I’ll make some changes. Which brings me to the last point: Don’t wait until your résumé is needed to update it. Working on your résumé is a little like writing in a journal in that it’s a way to check-in with yourself. If you don’t document your life, who will?

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Leadership better than fiction

I finally saw “Iron Man 3” this past weekend and enjoyed it thoroughly. This might be expected given that I’m a bit of a comic book junkie but, in addition, parts of the movie were filmed where I’ve worked for the past 22 years, SAS in Cary, NC.

In the building that served as the home for the fictitious Stark Industries works a real-life industry leader, maybe not a super hero but still a hero of sorts to the more than thirteen thousand employees who work for SAS.

I will admit that I’ve put off writing about Jim Goodnight for some time, because some might question the authenticity of a laudatory post about the President and CEO of the company providing my paycheck. (Note that these opinions are completely my own and not those of SAS.)  Still, if you’re looking for examples of leadership, the kind of spirit that embodies the American dream, it would be difficult to discount the actions that Dr. Goodnight has taken over the course of the past 37 years in building SAS into the world’s largest privately-held software company.

I cite the following:

The time he started a business — Dr. Goodnight could have had a comfortable life as a professor but realized that he had something special in the form of the statistical procedures he had developed for his research. When SAS Institute Inc. was formed, the notion of making it big in software was not common.

The time he re-engineered his bread-and-butter product — Dr. Goodnight saw the potential of the C programming language in making it possible for SAS software to run on all popular programming platforms. He changed the development language for SAS from PL/I to C in what became a hugely important technical move.

The time he decided not to go public — When the rest of the computer industry was cashing out by going public, Dr. Goodnight ultimately decided to keep SAS private. This has given him the freedom to run the company in the way he thinks best, rather than doing what short-sighted stockholders might want.

The time he started a school — Dr. Goodnight and his wife Anne found that the kind of school they wanted was lacking in the community where they lived, so they funded the building of Cary Academy, a private school near the SAS campus which hires talented teachers willing to use appropriate technology to carry out its demanding curriculum.

The time he refused layoffs — In the recession that began in 2008, many companies laid-off workers to avoid losses. Dr. Goodnight went to his employees and simply asked that they watch their spending. Through careful expenditures, the company managed to keep its 13,000 employees with no layoffs and another profitable year in the books.

There are many more examples of Jim Goodnight’s leadership I could cite. If it seems an indulgence to write complimentary things about one’s employer, then I hope you’ll grant me such every 22 years. To ignore these lessons would be to miss an opportunity to learn.

 

The one who gives the most wins

When I’m restless or pre-occupied at night, I sometimes listen to talks by Earl Nightingale, one of the oldest of old-school personal development coaches.  Long before Wayne Dyer, Tony Robbins, and the like, Nightingale was dispensing wisdom with a pleasant baritone voice.

Something I’ve heard him say many times always sticks with me:  If  we are unhappy with our  rewards, all in the world we have to do is increase our contribution.  To the degree we perform a valued service, so will we be rewarded.  (Or, as another ancient text puts it, “For whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.”)

Now this compensation may or may not be of a strictly monetary nature.  We can obviously see examples of entertainers and athletes who receive outrageous salaries compared to teachers or social workers.  But if we assume our work lives are not entirely measured by our pay, we can reap a large bounty of reward by giving our best to those whom we serve.

As one who serves others for a living (don’t we all in some way?), one of my goals is that I would never have a someone call me and begin the conversaton with “I know you’re really busy, but…” While I usually *am* busy, I want to cultivate the illusion that I always have time for that person, and then do my best to take care of his or her need.  Here’s how I see it:

What I give my customers:

My Communicator button is green for you.
I will be happy to talk to you in person.
I won’t hesitate to say “I’m sorry” if I’ve messed up.
If possible, I’ll say “Yes”.

What I receive:

You challenge me to be my best.
You give me the opportunity to do good work.
You’ll understand me saying “No” as long as you know I’m doing my best.
Because of you, I have a job.

This reciprocal contribution is not only good from a career standpoint, but I believe it is part of a rewarding life.  It just feels good when we are part of give-and-take relationship.  And when we do our best to out-give one another, I believe our company benefits.  Besides, don’t you enjoy a little competition between friends?

 

For Labor Day, a secret of adulthood revealed

Like most young people, I often slept late in the summer, played baseball in the park, and frequently enjoyed lying on my back, listening to the radio while staring at the white puffy clouds overhead.  Inevitably, at least once a month or so, some adult would tell me something along the lines of “Enjoy it now, because life will be much different when you have to go to work each day.” or “This is the best time of your life.”  Now, I don’t know how widespread conspiracies are carried out — there must be some hidden network to make sure everyone is on message — but I’m here to say that such assertions do not match my experience.  I look back on my childhood with great affection, but here’s the truth:  It is loads of fun to be an adult with an adult job.

There is something within us that likes to be useful.  Self-determination theory tells us that we all long for relatedness, competence, and autonomy.  We get this largely through our work.  Whether you are a software developer, a retail store manager, an insurance representative, or any of holder of a good, honest job, I’d wager that when things go well, when you are at the top of your game, you get a deep degree of satisfaction from a job well done.

When I go to the grocery store and reach for my favorite food (and I do love food), I am glad that I can work to afford such. When my car breaks, I pay for it knowing that I earned the money just for such occasions. And when I buy a silly T-shirt of my favorite rock band, I know that it’s okay because I worked hard to pay for it.

Most of all, when I see the accomplishments of my daughters, I know that paying for their education was worth all the hours of preparation for my career, and all the late nights I spent at the office.

If you’re reading this, work is most likely a part of your life.  It’s okay if you want to propagate the myth to children that life will never be better than childhood.  But they will find an enormous satisfaction when they join the ranks of the work force.  We can keep that just between us!

Now, for Labor Day, one of my favorite poems that speaks to how wonderful it is to make a contribution.

To be of use
by Marge Piercy

The people I love the best
jump into work head first
without dallying in the shallows
and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.
They seem to become natives of that element,
the black sleek heads of seals
bouncing like half-submerged balls.

I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,
who pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,
who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,
who do what has to be done, again and again.

I want to be with people who submerge
in the task, who go into the fields to harvest
and work in a row and pass the bags along,
who are not parlor generals and field deserters
but move in a common rhythm
when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

The work of the world is common as mud.
Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.
But the thing worth doing well done
has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.
Greek amphoras for wine or oil,
Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums
but you know they were made to be used.
The pitcher cries for water to carry
and a person for work that is real.

A team like clockwork

As a former track and field athlete and coach, my favorite events were the sprint relays. It’s no accident that the 4×400 relay usually ends the meet. It underscores the idea that, despite many individual heroics, this is still fundamentally a team sport.

I think we can use a relay to visualize how a team works best:

  1. Each of us has a role and whether we’re the strongest or the weakest, we all need to be at our best to produce the results we want.
  2. Practice and teamwork are required for the handoff of the baton. It’s not enough to do our part alone; we need to give to the other in a way that sets him or her up for success.
  3. If there’s a misstep, it doesn’t really matter *who* messed up in the final analysis. (You won’t find out who dropped the baton in the scorer’s sheet, you’ll just see a “DQ” listed.) Instead, we need to analyze *why* it happened and address it.
  4. Watch the team when the final leg is being run. It’s about this individual effort, sure, but it’s also the culmination of hours of work. A track meet usually starts with field events when few are watching. But those points count just as much at the end. There’s a lesson that we need to do our best even when the spotlight isn’t shining.

What makes a good team?

 

Mission Impossible castAs an elementary school student in the late 1960s, when I would lie on my back in the grass and daydream, I’m quite sure I never once imagined a future profession in which I would work with information technologies like Apache, Tomcat, MySQL, IIS, SharePoint and other staples that have enabled me to put bread of the table.  What I did picture was something resembling the television show “Mission: Impossible”, which was a favorite of mine at that time.  I loved the emsemble that included Mr. Phelps, the manager of sorts, Barney, the electronics and mechanical genius, Rollin, a magician, make-up artist, and master of disguise, Cinnamon, the smart blonde with acting skills, and Willy, the muscle man.  (Okay, I’ll confess that I wanted to be Willy the most.)

So, while I couldn’t imagine what I’d end up doing, I did very much want to be part of a team in which individual strenghs were recognized and used for the greater cause.  And this is still an ideal.  But is it a valid ideal?  What does research show with respect to the make-up of a strong team?   I wondered about these things and did a little research on the subject.  And what does the research say?

  • Team size — Generally, teams of 10 or fewer tend to function with less conflict, stronger communication, and more cohesion.
  • Demographics —  This is an area of much research, but the two most likely conclusions are that diversity and years of experience are helpful in making a team function at a high level.
  • Personality — People often use the Big Five personality traits (openness,conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism) to describe individuals.  In general, high levels of the openness leads to good communication, agreeableness makes for team cohesion, conscientiousness increases overall performance, extraversion increases team viability and performance, and neuroticism, if at a high level, can cause team instability.
  • Climate — This means how well individuals on the team regard the organization or team itself.  In other words, are they happy with the context in which the team operates.  Not surprisingly, those who think they are in the know but powerless to implement their ideas do not perform as well as those who have a high regard for their organization.

These are just a few ways that team composition has been studied to see what works and and what doesn’t. (Please note:  For each of these areas, I’ve tried to link to a representative study or summary.  There are additional studies to support each generalization. Much work has been done!)

I have been on teams where I felt like part of a well-functioning group that could rise to any challenge.  I’ve also been on teams where each meeting or interaction was painful to endure.  Some of the differentiators from my personal experience include:

  • How the team was initiated.  So many times, getting off on the right foot makes a huge difference.  If what is communicated in the beginning is, “Well, we’ve been thrown together to do this task that no one else wants to do.”, that sets the tone for the rest of the work.
  • The quality of the team leader.  This is obvious, but the leader really does determine much.  It is unfortunate if the team doesn’t believe in its leader; all other good intentions may be lost in disrespect for him or her.
  • The bureaucratic overhead.  Teams function best when someone with a gift for details is attending to them.  I like to think of  how a good host will lay out things at a dinner party so conversation and interactions are facilitated transparently, and the guests never think about the logistics.  In the same way, it’s good for someone to stay on top of what might anachronistically be called “the paperwork”, sparing the team of tedium that might get in the way.
  • Cohesion leading to teamwork.  Ultimately, teamwork can overcome deficiencies of all kinds.  When faced with more work than can be done, when you’re out of ideas, when you make a big mistake, it’s the closeness of the team that will keep you together.  As Vince Lombardi said about his teams which won the first two Super Bowls, “Teamwork is what the Green Bay Packers were all about. They didn’t do it for individual glory. They did it because they loved one another.”
To be part of a team striving for excellence, to know you can mess up in pursuit of something better, to know you’re not in it alone, these things outweigh everything else.

 

 

Make expectations clear to boost team performance

I have sometimes found myself shaking my head when I hear about couples who didn’t discuss basic matters such as family size, religion, expectations surrounding work, and so on before getting married.  I recently listened to an interview with Dr. J. Richard Hackman, professor of psychology at Harvard, and this same phenomenon came to mind about how such often happens in a business setting.

Hackman mentioned what he considers one of the most important factors in teams that function at a high level.  In his opinion, it is very important for the team leader to be “up-front, going in, as to norms of conduct.”  This communication concerns expectations about what goes and what doesn’t go with respect to the group members as individuals or as functioning team members.   There needs to be clarity about how team members use each other’s expertise, and how the group will work together.    This was based on a study of 120 teams that were considered senior teams from around the world.

At first I was a bit surprised that this research ranked this as such an important factor.  After reflection, however, I did understand that this is key.  Why is this sometimes neglected?   Why do managers sometimes fail to provide direction on simple behavior between and amongst team members?  I think it’s because it feels a little too personal, maybe a little too touchy-feely.  It might be uncomfortable for some to make explicit that which they consider personal (even when it’s not really a personal topic).  Some may believe “I’m dealing with professionals and they will conduct themselves professionally, doing what is in the best interests of the company.”

If this research is to be believed,  we may need to rethink the assumption that all will be well without making these things to be explicit.   Some managers may think to themselves, “I’ll deal with a problem if it arises.”  By the time it arises, however, the team may have already begun to fracture. In fact, team members will appreciate, I believe, being given instructions about how they will all work together.   I’ve heard many colleagues express sadness over the inability of all to work closely together on projects.

I think it is a great idea for a leader to say, “Here is what I expect from you, and here is what you can expect from me.”  Do you expect your team members to help each other with time-sensitive problems?   Do you want them to specialize or to cross-train?  Do you want folks to show up to meetings having prepared in a certain way?  When is the best time for them to approach you and in what way?  All of this can be communicated with humor and good cheer, in the interest of working well together.   This doesn’t have to have the ominous feel of a parent contemplating a birds and bees talk.  Have fun with it!

In the workplace, we have the opportunity to increase our effectiveness and harmony by talking about expectations.  This is one easy way to eliminate misunderstandings and potential ill-feelings.

(By the way, Dr. Hackman’s Team Diagnostic Survey looks to be an interesting instrument for measuring a team’s ability to work well together.)

My first lesson in leadership

When I was in elementary school, I loved the book “Stone Soup” by Marcia Brown. You may have read this too.

In the book, some soldiers are traveling through a town. They are hungry and ask the peasants for some food. No one will admit to having any to spare, so the travelers announce that they will just need to make stone soup. The peasants are intrigued so when asked for just a little seasoning to improve the stone soup, it is provided. “Stones like these generally make good soup. But oh, if there were carrots, it would be much better,” the travelers say. A villager goes off to fetch some carrots. “A good stone soup should have cabbage,” said the soldiers as they sliced the carrots into the pot. “But no use asking for what you don’t have.” With that Marie announces she might be able to find some cabbage. Before long, folks are willing to provide beef, potatoes, barley and milk. When all was said and done, the soup was fit for a king. “Soon a banquet was spread and everyone sat down to eat. Never had there been such a feast. Never had the peasants tasted such soup. And fancy, made from stones!”

I think in some ways this was a lesson in leadership, perhaps my first leadership book. We are sometimes convinced we cannot provide what is needed, but when presented with an opportunity to contribute to something special, we find inside what is missing. In the end, we all share in something much greater than that with which we started. A little infectious enthusiasm and energy go a long way!

When a relationship is difficult: Making the full committment

When a relationship is difficult, especially one in which you have a large business or familial stake, it can color your whole outlook on life.  I’ve certainly found myself with a black cloud hanging over my head, thinking, “What can I do to make this better?”  I’d like to explore some aspects of making difficult relationships better in some upcoming posts, though much of the time I will admit to being bewildered as to how things can become so botched up sometimes.  I know one unhealthy approach I’ve found myself falling into has been to become defensive and lose perspective.

With respect to the business environment, in a classic article by Peter Drucker, he suggests two tips for improving relationships with colleagues: 1) Recognize their strengths and figure out a way to have yours and the others’ strengths compliment one another 2) Take responsibility for communications between you and the other.

This latter point reminded me of something else I learned of a few years ago. I wanted to pass it on here in case it might help you or someone you know.

It is called the 100/0 principle, and it was written initially by Al Ritter. This is the formula: You take full responsibility for the relationship (the 100) and expect nothing in return (the 0). As you take authentic responsibility for a relationship, it will be that the other person does as well. Consequently, the 100/0 Principle transforms to something approaching 100/100, at least that is the hope. By being persistent in your kindness and respect for another person, you will change the dynamic of a relationship. When that happens, true breakthroughs occur for the individuals involved, their teams, their organizations (and, depending on the situation, perhaps their families). Most people just give up too soon. Doing this requires tremendous discipline, faith, and humility, but when faced with a “failure is not an option” relationship, it may be what you need to do.

I will admit that I find the concept intimidating, but I also think it can be hugely rewarding.  If you try this, please let me know how it goes.  Also, if you have any wisdom on how to work your way through relationship difficulties, please share with us all!